Art of Deception

My idea of the first blog was that it should contain things I like and dislike ... but I thought WTF [what the fcuk], who cares what I like and dislike ... so here I am back to square one ... what should I include in my first blog ... I believe that the title "Art of Deception" would serve the purpose rather well but I thought it becomes too harsh on the first timers to read too much of intellectual stuff for their rather unintellectual brains.

Yeah I just cursed you there. But if u know me and you are reading this ... you discard it with a smile. And if you don't know me, you will continue reading on...
Deception in my view is a means of survival. Ever Human ( with a capital H ) in this form of existence ( "form" is the state or time rather than mutation ) is an invariable target of politics that arise at workplace, family, friends and education.

Family and friends is something that are defined and controlled by your emotions and thoughts that you express towards them. If you are pissed at them, you fell that they are sick and you want to be alone...If you feel happy about them being around you, you adapt to the circumstances and then be happy with everyone.

But for people with "violent mood swings" ... that above things don't come true. I am a victim. I know what it feels. One moment you want to be left alone and the other moment you want to be with everyone ... and if there is no one around u...u fell why the hell has everyone started to ignore.But all that happened when I was staying at a Hostel. Family is something thats see with respect. At a place like a hostel where people are of the same age group, the respect seems to cease when the ego comes into play.

Then comes the funny part ... you start analyzing... You commit the biggest mistake ... "analyze" ... and then emote.

When you start analyzing...you create boundaries for others not to cross ... you distinguish on the basis of your decisions and not the circumstances. Any one did something that hurt you, necessarily doesn't mean that it was an intended thing. It might been an act that was not intended on his part to be something that offensive to you. Action is neither good nor bad. It is the MOTIVE behind the action that is good or bad. We should act under all circumstances. If the action has amounted to a murder, and the intent is good, then even an act of murder is considered right in every sense. Thats what our Indian Government acclaimed "The Bhagwat Gita" states. So stop analyzing things.

The things start all over again ... you become agitated like a rebellious teenager with puberty oozing with every word spoken. The teenage angst with every expression of thought.

Now the question is not how to control this thing ... but how to deceive these things. The things that might make a permanent effect on your friends and your boss. The only way out is to calm your self down for the moment. Tell yourself that you have been in worse places and times and this is just a piece of shit.

Later when you are with a buddy ... discuss with him.
Doesn't help out much then follow the disciplines of the Bhagwat ...It does help a lot.

It tells you that everything around you is an illusion. An illusion that you have seen through out your existence. An illusion that can be discarded at your will. There is a higher level of existence that contradicts all you have seen and all that you were supposed to see.

The basic principle of the Bhagwat is " Let the fool be delivered." which is a complete statement in itself. It requires no meaning. For a fool the statement holds no importance or logic. Hence the word "delivered".

The Bhagwat is the ultimate truth. And the ultimate truth needs no acceptance. If you wish to reject it ... it still remains what it is. If you accept it ... one fool less in the world of materialism.

There is a difference in knowing the path and walking the path. If you know the truth and do nothing about yourself ... it server no purpose ... rather be an ignorant than an wise fool. The other type of fool that is. A fool that knows things but cant implement them.

Thats the breed that stays mystified by the facts but are too busy to implement. Fools that just do the foreplay and never move on to the real thing. Thats a good one...just made it up.

The reason behind being simple. In todays world everything that we do is with a purpose. Something that is done without purpose is very hard to achieve.

So the root cause of failure ... that is "purpose" ... is the only thing that keeps us going ahead. Something that is achieved without purpose is achieved better. Better in terms of time and value. Better in terms of quality of life. Better in terms of fulfillment.
The life becomes more meaningful once you are in control of the decisions made and the result achieved. Once the habit of getting into things more deep is achieved ... things will be easier to understand, easier to assimilate and easier to remember.

The power of self confidence is truly a mirror image of this feeling that is exhibited by only people that believe in themselves. Not superficially but literally.

So...START BELIEVING.